Please & Thank You Aren't Platitudes - They Show Kindness & Respect
Jul 19, 2020
Do you ever wonder if manners are becoming a dying art? People seem so wrapped up in themselves these days that even the simplest of courtesies seem to go by the wayside. The world is busy and fast-paced, but it only takes a few seconds to show someone common courtesy. Plus, the results can have a number of benefits. Please and thank you really aren’t platitudes. They show kindness, respect, and so much more. Take a look.
Show Gratitude
These two simple phrases are something we’re taught to use from a very young age. However, they can become so commonplace that we forget to say them and the message they can convey. Saying please and thank you shows gratitude in a wide variety of situations. It’s kind to take a moment to use your manners to demonstrate appreciation. If someone does something on your behalf, thanking them shows them you know they didn’t have to do it and that you are truly appreciative of the fact that they did. Likewise, when you are asking someone for something, adding please to your request shows you know they’re going out of their way for you.
Avoid Entitlement
Showing gratitude toward others also alleviates a common problem I see in this world, and that’s entitlement. People often expect others to go out of their way for them. This is especially true when it’s someone’s job to serve us, but many of us treat our friends and loved ones with a sense of entitlement as well. This attitude, even when not intentional, can come across as quite hurtful. You can counter coming across as entitled simply by saying please and thank you in your interactions. Whether you are asking a favor or receiving a service, it’s simply a kind thing to do.
Acknowledge Others
One of the reasons these little words are so powerful is because they convey a sense of acknowledgement to the person with whom you’re engaging. Saying please and thank you lets them know you see them; you recognize them as a person. That means a lot. It shows you’re not feeling entitled to their time and their effort. You are acknowledging the very fact that this person is taking the time to engage with you and that you don’t take them for granted.
When you say please and thank you, you’ll more than likely make someone’s day a little brighter. Taking just this small effort can go a long way toward being kind and respectful toward others. Be genuine in your words, and you won’t regret them.
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